My therapist told me, “No one notices your sadness until it turns into anger, and then you’re the problem. Healing is realizing you became the angry person because no one saw your sadness first” and I felt that.
falling in love with someone that you had no idea you’d ever fall for is the most beautiful kind of love. no forcing chemistry. just a pure, special connection that is created all on its own
In a relationship, nothing is more attractive than when a man continues to choose you, even after he already has you. When he still puts in effort, still notices the small things, still reassures you without being asked. When his actions remind you that you're not taken for granted, but valued, desired, and intentionally loved every single day.
Me saying i have high standards, but in reality, i’d fall in love with someone who's just gentle with me. Someone who makes me feel safe, who remembers the little things, and never makes me feel like i have to try too hard to be loved.
nobody talks about the angry stage of healing. the rage you feel when you realize how much and how long you were taken advantage of. the absolute disgust you feel towards those people that mislead you. it comes in waves. sometimes you’ll feel healed and then it suddenly hits you.