@vilas_sp7@FearedBuck I mean even to expand on this, you don’t need to and probably shouldn’t unless it’s in your budget be taking someone for a first date somewhere expensive. If you’re getting to know someone it’s the gesture that matters and not the price.
sometimes it sucks being so alert 🥴 i can feel a vibe, sense a lie, read a tone, connect 2 and 2. you just can't be around me if you aint real right cause what i don't mention i still didn't miss.
A guy that drinks and a guy that doesn't drink were asked what influenced their position with alcohol.
1st guy: My father was a drunkard. I looked at him and knew I didn't want that for me.
2nd guy: My father drinks so I naturally took after him.
A polygamous man and a monogamous man were asked why they took that path.
Poly: My dad was polygamous. I didn't want that for me.
Mono: My dad was polygamous.
Do you understand where I am going now?
Your parents having a beautiful/toxic relationship does not guarantee you'll have one too. Being loved at home or not, will not determine the fate of your relationship. You'll have to decide for yourself what kind of relationship you want. You can use your environment as a lesson or an example. The choice is yours. You accept the love you think you deserve.
This also applies to how you raise kids. You can decide to copy your environment because you like how you were raised or disregard it because you loathe it. It is always a choice. Environment gives exposure but you are solely responsible for your choices.
Jaylen Brown, who recently signed the biggest contract in NBA history, says he wants to use it to combat the “unsettling” wealth disparity in Boston
“I want to launch a project to bring Black Wall Street to Boston and help bridge the wealth gap.“