if people got married & focused on stabilizing finances it would make sense. instead they get married, quickly make 2 children & start cheating. one spouse suddenly loses their income or decides to 'stay home' & ghafla the economy starts defeating the one-income family of 4
No. 1, a legend for replacing you immediately. No. 2, a witness who can testify that you were actually safe the whole time, in case you build a case against him in the future.
And yes, I do believe the friendships you form in your early years are often rooted in proximity, while the ones you form in adulthood are rooted in alignment.
i like ppl who can talk about sex, lust, nd their freaky side, then switch to human psychology, existentialism, and the absurdity of life in the same conversation