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[Dating Confessions @DatingConfs]

We have been friends since we were like 6. Played Pokémon games together and played pretend as our favorite video game characters with our other friends from school.
We are still pals all through grade school and middle school and even into high school (despite different high schools)

I was constantly at his house. We were the best of friends. We even started playing smash competitively together. We were inseparable. Our friends would joke about "wow just date already!!" And we'd laugh it off like haha nooooo we are just realllly good friends hahahaha

At some point, I started liking him as more than a friend. I was so confused because oh man I don't want to ruin our friendship. I don't even know how to tell him! Does he like me??? Being a 16/17 year old girl was a confusing time.

I eventually confide in a friend of ours...who makes it his mission to get us together. After some hilarious failed attempts ("do not drive after wisdom teeth surgery dude wtf"), he dragged me out of my house WITHOUT SHOES after school one day and took me to my crush's house. And then left me there. Without my car. Or shoes. Or wallet or anything.
We spent the day as usual - playing games, going to Dairy Queen and grabbing ice cream, hanging out. Then I somehow got the nerve to let him know how I felt right before he had to take me home.

We've been dating for almost 8 years now. We are talking about moving in together when he finishes up paramedic school. He's still my best friend, so it works out pretty well haha

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@SalliHamuzah @AshvathPelican 🤣

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So straight onto the point me and my gf (of 2 years) wanted to have sex today for the first time. Both of us are virgin so we dont have any experience. We’ve done everything except for sex and i thought we would have a good time today. But when we met and everything she just started telling me that she has to leave in like 35-40 mins so i didnt wanna rush anything and i said “We can just leave it be for another day i dont want it being rushed for us and i want it to be a very good experience”. This was after we madeout, i ate her out for a bit and then i asked if i could finger her before we go to actual sex as i wanna make her feel really good before going into the actual sex. She tells me she has to leave in like 10 mins and to “just put my dick in her” i told her thats not how i want it to be and it just seems so rushed and everything so we can just leave it for another day. Mind you i told her this like 6-8 times and she still kept insisting for me to put it in her and tbh i wasnt even in the mood by then. But she kept on saying to put it so i kinda just did it for her but when i was about to put my dick in i was just soft and i just couldnt do it and the way i acted after that was a bit off and she just left being pissed at me. And now we’ve been arguing for the past 2 hours. And tbh thus experience just ruined all my desires of having sex anymore like i dont even wanna do it.
And mind you she wasnt forced into sex by any means. She was the one who brought the topic up of feeling ready and wanting to try it so her feeling forced is out of the equation.

[Dating Confessions @DatingConfs]

I know a story about a guy who cheated on his wife because he found a mistress. And then he cheated on both his wife and mistress because he got a taste for a colleague.
When it blew up, he lost his mistress and his colleague. He managed to sort things out with his wife, but he quit his job. If anyone's wondering how it ended up?
Not even a month went by before he cheated on his wife with the neighbor. Cheating, that's an adult social game.
How do I know all this? I slept with his wife. So, hi there, Jakub.

[Dating Confessions @DatingConfs]

I have a gluten allergy. My ex was banging my roommate, and I found out because he had passed out on the couch and I saw his phone light up with her name so I read the texts between them.
They’d been sleeping together since a week after she and I started dating, which was 10 months before.
One of the texts I read which occurred multiple times was my ex sprinkling flour into my food so I’d take a Benadryl and pass out on nights they really wanted to fuck.
It had happened a dozen times that I could think of. They even went out of town together for a week after both coming up with excuses that they’d both be out of town but on different sides of the country and I had no reason not to believe them because I trusted them both completely.
I cut off all contact with them and moved out of the condo. They got married a year later and now have 2 kids together so I’m happy for them in some ways and disappointed in other ways.

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Im broke and i still managed to bag a very pretty woman.
Im from Rwanda and my fiancé is Japanese. We met when she travelled through Africa and one of the countries she passed was Rwanda. She has pale skin and the body of an African woman, big black eyes and black wavy hair. I instantly fell in love with the way her booty bounce haha. I showed her around Rwanda, made her try Akabenz and Matoke then went to have a few drinks. After that we teleported on my bed and the next day we went together to Burundi for two nights.
We kept contact even after she went to Japan and she told me that she got pregnant the time she was with me. Her family of course still don't approve of me but they still paid for my plane ticket to go to Japan and live with her. It was hard to find a good job, but i was able to get a job as a cleaner to support my new family.
Shes on her eighth month now and im really excited to see my daughter!

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@LondonDream237 💯💯💯

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I (24M) recently have been seeing this girl(22F) from Hinge and we have been talking for about a month (although I was in Europe for about 2 weeks of this month). We have gone on about 5 dates. She has been great to hang out with, although I can tell she just graduated from college recently.
Just last night she spent the night for the first time. We did not “go all the way” because she only does that when she starts officially dating someone. Which I totally respect. She did tell me that she has genital herpes and wanted to let me know now. I thanked her and told her that was very brave of her to say. Then she says she would understand what ever decision I made going forward now. I told her I didn’t know enough about it and that I would think about it.
Before we fell asleep, she told me to please not ghost her (genuinely broke my heart hearing that) I told her I would never.
I am planning to call her today and tell her I can’t keep pursuing a relationship with her. I have thought about it and I just don’t know if I could commit to her without knowing her very well. And this feels like a big commitment because even though there’s only about a 1% chance of me contracting it from her, in my mind I would feel like I already have it once we start having sex. Just something to always think about. I know it isn’t her fault and I feel awful but I just don’t know if it feels right to me now, unfortunately.
I am not sure how to say that over the phone. Any advice on how to handle this would be greatly appreciated because I don’t want to hurt her.

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@fbi__open__up Exactly bro.. 0 self respect

[Dating Confessions @DatingConfs]

While having drinks she was openly scrolling through her dating app and said she only asked to meet up because she had an hour to kill before the person she really wanted to meet was scheduled to show up. I get it especially because shes a walking goddess on earth and she wants to keep her options open and still get to know me. The next day i asked her if her date went well and if she wanted a 2nd date. Now we have a 2nd date this upcoming Thursday

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@TradersConf Hopefully he does bcs thats degrading for him

[Dating Confessions @DatingConfs]

Look, I absolutely did not give up a modeling career to do online dating. But when I was on the apps (am in a 3 year relationship now), I never had problems getting dates. I am not wealthy. What works:
1⁠Create an accurate profile on dating apps. Current pictures, tell people who you are and what you are looking for.
2⁠When you connect with people, take an interest in them. I joke God gave us 2 ears and 1 mouth because we should listen 2x as much as we speak. Ask questions. Look to see what you have in common (which you can build upon).
3⁠I recommend getting on the phone (or video if that works for you) as soon as possible. If she isnt ready to give you her number, call through the app, or give her your phone number and let her block her number while calling you. Great way to see if there is chemistry. If you can't carry a conversation over the phone, then you wont be able to in person.
4⁠Don't drag this process out. Before the end of the first week, schedule a date. The date itself isnt as important - drinks are a great option, because if things are going well, you can extend to dinner. And if they arent - you both have a quick out. But it can be an event, a walk/hike, dinner, a picnic, etc.
5⁠Don't play games about reaching out too soon, etc. When you are done with the date, text to make sure she got home ok (if she doesn't reach out). If you enjoyed the date, express that to your date, and look to schedule a second date as soon as possible. It might be that week, or a week or two later. But make sure that you show your interest. Remember people can't read your mind. Never assume they know, if you havent said.
6⁠Remember the little things. If you don't live in the same town, schedule early dates in her neck of the woods. Make sure you are the one traveling. It shows interest and is respectful.
7⁠REmember, even if you do all of these things, there is no guarantee any individual date will work. BE patient. Sometimes it takes time. And with first impressions, if you make a bad one, it is tough to recover.
Good luck

[Dating Confessions @DatingConfs]

@TradersConf Right💯

[Dating Confessions @DatingConfs]

Me and my boyfriend are very close. One time we were laughing so hard i peed myself in his clothes and we laughed even harder🤣

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My wife and I met online and e-dated for 8 months. We are getting married soon so I guess you could say it can work out. But im the rare exception, the vast majority of online dating/long distance does not work out.

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@DV8ions__ This comment gave me chills

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I’ve been calling my ex through the unknown caller thing. Im so obsessed with him so muchhh. I even stalk him with my car most of the time whenever im back in my hometown. He knows that i want him and he blocked me from everywhere lol

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@TradersConf Yeah..

[Dating Confessions @DatingConfs]

We were both 19 she a beautiful, dark skin, green eyes a 10. Had been through a couple of my buddies I was mostly 3 in line so I got great intel on my buds….she required hard sex 10 times a day and would wake you in ways you could not resist. I made it 4 months lost 20 pounds that was pounded out of me. I always desired lots of sex but this almost killed me for real. A delightful way to die tho. I ran off feeling like first she was trying to kill guys with delight. Then just realized she had needs outside design limitations of the male body. She wanted constant contact anywhere all the time and there were big risks. It was my first overdose on sex and it changed my life forever. You CAN receive more of what you desire than you can handle. It was the first time I saw sex as a drug and drugs can kill you. I went 6 months not wanting a female around after that then didn’t stray from reasonable ever again. Joy was her name and 15 years later she committed suicide. I was sad to learn this she was very endearing and thoughtful. She made me forever think of women as devises that CAN kill you with love. I love women but at 19 you get lots of lessons if you want them. I raced motocross and thought nothing could harm me until those 4 months. To you Joy! She taught me fully, there was a place called too much sex.

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I married my college professor. We've been together almost 20 years. I was over 21 and he was not yet 30. It was an independent study type course my last semester. I had to hint to him that I was interested. We went on a date and the rest is history. Not a scandal or big deal.