Some of us have made peace with the fact that relationship might not be for us.
Eat, sleep, watch movies, work, make money, play games, buy stuff and again and again and again.
in regards to my recent tweets about hisandhers, I want to give some context as to whats going on there. I dislike to associate with environments that tolerate harmful behavior, excuse it, or silence concerns when it’s inconvenient. I’ve watched patterns where serious issues were minimized, accountability was avoided, and responsibility was treated as optional. Excusing a GROWN mans behaviour even after proof he was talking to someone underaged, is insane.
I also can’t stand behind communities that claim “community means everything” while repeatedly failing the people who hold those spaces together. When moderators are overworked, unsupported, and then belittled or mocked, that isnt community its exploitation. I felt disrespected, and that my time was worth nothing
Leadership means drawing boundaries, backing your team, and acting when something is wrong, not only when its comfortable or for good "press". I wont be part of spaces that expect silence or loyalty at the expense of integrity.
this isnt about drama or calling people out by name. Its about values/morals. im choosing to be in spaces that prioritize accountability, safety, and genuine support, not just the appearance of it for an extra dollar and
if that decision makes people uncomfortable, or want to leave, im okay with that.
I have zero reason to lie or distort the truth. I’m not desperate for views, and the fact that they keep pushing that narrative says far more about them than it does about me. what theyre doing is projection. Im sorry to the people, groups, or minorities that continue to be silenced by people like them.