Yes, taking someoneโs money without permission, whether between spouses or anyone else, is technically a form of theft. However, in marriage, finances are often shared, and the way a couple handles money depends on their understanding and agreement.
If your husband keeps money and you take from it without telling him, heโll frown at it.
The right thing to do is,
Wife: honey, can I take from that money in the drawer ?
Husband: Yes, my wife.
If a husband and wife have an open arrangement where they freely access each otherโs money, it may not be considered theft.
But if the husband has made it clear that he does not want his money taken without permission, and the wife does so anyway, it could be seen as dishonest or even stealing.
Which brings me to why youโre trying to do the context.
If a wife says โNoโ, forcing her is rape.
More importantly, financial transparency and mutual respect are key in marriage.
Mutual respect, which is what most of you have obviously said you canโt give your wife, so itโs better to rape her.
If a wife feels the need to take money without asking, it might point to deeper issues like lack of communication, financial control, or unmet needs. A better approach would be to discuss financial expectations and agreements openly.
If a man feels the need to rape his wife, it points to deeper issues, a lack of self control, a man who doesnโt understand โman shall not live by bread aloneโ.
But again, this is Twitter, whatever itโll take to be vile, will be chosen.
Letโs all go ahead be who will choose to be.