โI love you, I love youโ ๐
Talk is cheap. Wait until that love is tested. Wait until life hits you both with a real challengeโthatโs when youโll truly know who youโre with.
Love is easy when everything is going well. Itโs in the difficult seasons that love reveals its depth.
I donโt think anyone can truly predict their spiritual compatibility in marriage.
You can pray, seek guidance, ask questions, observe each otherโs values and make sure youโre medically compatible.
But at some point, you also have to trust the person youโve chosen and commit the journey into Godโs hands.
Every big thing in life starts small.
Some marriages may start with very little. Some may have difficult seasons. Some couples may have to build from the ground up.
But if two people genuinely love each other, remain faithful to themselves, share a common vision and are willing to grow together, they can build something beautiful with time.
You donโt need to have everything figured out before you begin.
Sometimes, you just need two people who are willing to keep choosing each other and keep building.
May we all find that kind of love. โค๏ธ
My dear married men, I have stayed on this app long enough to know that posting someone you love can sometimes attract trolls and unnecessary attention.
No amount of clout should make you put certain things on social media. One of the core values of a man is to protect. An innocent lover shouldnโt have to feel the wrath of our online presence or the consequences of our desire for engagement.
You can love someone deeply and still choose to keep that love private. People rarely insult, attack or get worked up over what they know nothing about.
You already know how social media works. If you must post, do your due diligence and understand what you are exposing.
Since you cannot control trolls, sometimes the smartest thing to do is keep your life simple and protect what matters to you, unless, of course, you genuinely enjoy the attacks. โผ๏ธ