@CatWomaniya Slut and rape are not the same logic.
But as soon as you take pictures from a girl/woman in public, you will see how she sees herself.
We try to hide our true intent from others and us, but occasionally we show the truth.
The question is, if you give or sell yourself?
@iky_fwjett You just pick topics that are tied to female biology.
F and M violence look different. The true crime is that we treat female form of violence/abuse as social norm.
When we see child abuse (treating your kid as partner), the male form is punished, the female form celebrated.
@OfSelina Whatever hurt you don't spread your pain. It's just your worldview.
So basically sex is something beautiful. And we should do anything to make it a brilliant experience.
Therefore the first experience should be great. We learn from experts. Optimize the experience. ππ»
@Exile_2022 MΓ€dels machen dasselbe, aber da wird es kritisiert.
Wir machen es doch sonst bei allen Themen: wenn wir was Neues lernen, suchen wir doch Leute mit Erfahrung? Also Erstkontakt mit Profis π€π» Wir sollten darauf achten, dass die Erfahrungen mΓΆglichst schΓΆn werden.
@JezziiB You can repeat it as long as you want, but that's not how humans work.
We (our limbic system) looks always for shared beliefs. So we always choose people that share our worldview, which is basically our pain.
So we repeat familiar pain in the contacts we have (giving/receiving)
@Avazoey_ Once again no.
With this mindset you are the abuser, because you hinder healthy integration of sexuality, but sexualize especially girls.
And you don't care about the girls. It's just about power and control. Totally sad.
Abuse is forcing and denying. It's the same damage.
@Luv_Xcuses If you take recreation aside, none of us is important.
Until we learn to connect. Then we can be great. But as long as we just run around and pamper our ego, we are useless. Actually a burden or parasite.
@Uniquekatie02 Not at all. Only the 4% that just exist to fuck you.
All the decent guys you usually ignore would have way to much respect.
But as always, if sth is an unlimited resource, the value (and respect) drops.
@meishato Nope. Life is a bit more complex. You can request an illusionary world, for sure. But that doesn't make it more likely.
It's about balance. And currently we have basically two modes: violence/power or connection.
So you can choose your world. But every choice comes with a cost.
@RealPostFolder You make young women quite stupid.
There are two things a) it's often just about energy (basically hope) b) it's not chasing, but where you get most feedback from as a man.
The resignation level after 25+ is tremendous. That's an issue of society.
@hell_line0 No one will date someone in survival mode if not themselves also in survival mode.
We pick always matching worldviews. Way before any conscious thought.
Every contact is symmetrical. That's makes it so funny when people tell you that there ex is an a**hole π€·πΌπ
@hell_line0 That's tricky. Because then we can start again killing people after they had an accident.
Killing to avoid suffering was always a moral dilemma.