I just saw a TikTok of a woman saying not to argue with men online (and prob irl) cos they’re ragebaiting you so you can argue w them cos they don’t have money for a dominatrix and I think… folks need to keep that in mind moving forward
If you’re sending a gift with an expectation attached, this is no longer a gift and has become a transaction that I did not agree to be a part of. If generosity is not your only motive, I prefer you keep your money.