I go through things and come out untouched, unscathed, more renewed and with more wisdom. I never lose my sauce and standards because that’s just me. That’s just how my life is. God is my source.
I don’t like the idea that you’re never supposed to express your insecurities because someone, somewhere, may want to use that against you. Eh, I think it’s better advice to be strong and have pride in all sides of you, so nobody can take your truth and use it as a weapon.
My aunt was found at her home, sleeping even. She wasn't feeling well, so she stayed home asleep during the day. A group of men broke into her house thinking nobody was there. A man driving past noticed what was happening and called for help. The police arrived, woke my aunt up, and made sure she was safe. That man later became her husband. They've now been married for 8 years and have 2 children. 🤝😭
Ehh. Depends. I’ve lived long enough to know that some ppl truly want to reciprocate but have challenges that regularly prevent that.
I help bc I like to and I want to. That way I’m not resentful of ppl dealing with more shit than me.
At this big age when people show signs of hidden animosity or weird energy, I just remove myself. I’m not trying to understand you and I’m not trying to make it make sense
Someone said that when a man doesn't have the financial means to do the things he wants, he'll try to discourage you from what you want and like, and push you toward what he can afford. And a lot of times, he'll start arguments too, because he's frustrated by his own limitations.