Someone asked her, “what makes you feel neglected in a relationship?”
she replied, “when they always have time for everything, but somehow never enough time for me.”
As I grow older, I think my biggest love language is acts of service; but my trauma response is doing everything myself so no one can let me down or hold it over my head.
Person go just sit down for bed dey do transfer up and down till money go finish for account.
In the end, not even one naira was spent on one’s self for enjoyment or personal expenses.
If you buy me lunch I’m buying you lunch , you get me some for my birthday I’m getting you some, you show up for me I’m there for u ! No I don’t count favors I just treat ppl how they treat me.
as someone who likes to talk things out, i’m slowly learning that not every feeling requires a conversation. sometimes you just have to sit with it, let it pass and move on.
people aren’t perfect and neither am i. grace is necessary.