Dating someone who brings out your inner child, keeps you laughing, flirts with you like they never get tired of it, and loves you a little harder on the days you need it most >>>
Your man should naturally want to spend time with you, take you out, compliment you, and do nice things that make you feel special. you shouldn't have to teach him how to love or care for you. because if a man truly loves you, he'll show it without you asking. it will be seen in how he listens to you, how he remembers the little things you said, and how he makes time no matter how busy he is. he won't just say things, he'll prove it through actions. you won't have to question how he feels, because he'll make you feel safe and sure. the truth is, you don't need to remind a real man how to treat you right. when it's real, it comes naturally. the right man will know how to love you and will want to, all on his own.
The older you get, the more you realise how rare it is to find people who simply want your company. Not what you can do for them. Just you. The ones who are happy with a coffee or simply talking about life. Just genuine comfort in each other's presence. When you find those people, treasure them.
A night drive with your partner is such a nice bonding activity. Karaokeing, caressing thighs, stealing kisses, getting dinner, etc. I highly recommend
The part nobody claps for:
Forgiving them quietly. Creating closure for yourself instead of waiting for their apology. Moving forward without the conversation you deserved but will never receive. Freeing yourself.
I know I said I don't want a relationship right now, but if I meet a man who treats me exactly the way I've always wanted to be treated... you really think I'm going to sleep on that? 😭😂