an eldest daughter once said being the firstborn means you’re automatically irritated by incompetence. not because you’re harsh, but because you were never given the room to be incompetent yourself. the daughters who know… know.
Taurus ”mean” is literally just us pointing out the things that people thought went unnoticed with hopes of said things never being mentioned until we decided to be the ones mentioning
sometimes people distance themselves because they are actually OVERWHELMED, and it’s not even that they’re cutting you off. it just really means they’re trying to survive and take care of their own needs, and that has nothing to do with you.
I’m the girl who handles all her hard days in silence. I don’t complain much, I don’t always ask for help, & I rarely vent. I carry my own weight & I’ll always move through life with that I’ll figure it out mindset.
it’s important to build friendships deeper than gossiping, drinking, smoking, and going out. make friends you can get breakfast with, cry with, and grow with. friends who support your goals and genuinely believe in you.
we’re often taught not to cut ties with people because we might need them someday. but today, i pray that i never have to rely on anyone who has hurt, ridiculed, or embarrassed me. may God always provide for me abundantly so i never find myself in that position.
how do you tell someone “i’m not ignoring you i’m just disconnected from reality right now and the days are all blurred together and i feel completely apathetic towards everyone/everything around me so it’s really hard for me to maintain a conversation” without saying that
YALL THIS GIRL SAID, “It’s not gonna hurt me seeing you with someone else bc I already know how you are. but it’s gonnna hurt you to see me with someone else bc you already know how I am gonna love them” & I NEED EVERYONE TO WRITE THAT DOWN