People amplify what God delivered them from & often forget what He kept them from.
Remember to thank God not only for delivering you from evil, but also for sparing you from it altogether.
Love yourself
Have realistic expectations
Don’t rush things & don’t assume
Live in the present times
Be deliberate about your choice of partner
Communicate, listen to understand & not to respond & Set realistic boundaries
If you wear nice clothes people will think you are showing off. You wear simple clothes they think you’re poor. If you speak your mind you’re rude. If you stay quiet you’re a coward. If you’re successful you’re arrogant. If you’re struggling you’re lazy.
Relationships don’t work nowadays because we are dating people who are still In love with their Ex's, people who jump into a new relationship for the sake of showing their Ex’s that they can live without them, people who are struggling to move on, suffering from insecurities.