Ppl rlly don’t take fatphobia seriously it boils my blood genuinely I don’t think ppl understand how horrifically violent and painful fatphobia is and how fucking prevalent it is bc no one notices but fat ppl
can’t be friends with goody two shoes eldest daughters that r super religious and bend to their parents every will sorry I kno u guys r in a tough spot but I only hang with real disappointments
things you should decenter by 30 years young as a woman:
- white people and any standard created by white people
- religion
- men & the opinions of men (all men but especially the ugly & broke ones)
- your mother’s (parents) opinion.