I can’t promise a relationship without disagreements or difficult days. But I can promise this: whenever you reach for me, you’ll find me reaching back. As long as we’re both willing to try, I’ll keep choosing us. I’ll choose repair over walking away, honest conversations over assumptions, and our relationship over the need to be right. Give me a reason to hold on, and I’ll weave it into the foundation we’re building together. On the days we’re exhausted, I’ll choose kindness. On the days we’re stubborn, I’ll choose honesty. And on every day in between, I’ll keep showing up, for you, for us, and for what we’re creating together.
A random fact: a lot of long marriages in the past actually existed because women were financially trapped. When a woman makes her own money, the only thing a man can truly offer is how he treats her. That’s why there’s a male loneliness epidemic.
I’m fine being the villain in your story.
because in mine, you’re a pathological narcissist with no integrity, no honesty, no emotional intelligence and no maturity to take accountability.
Lessons I've learned from dating men:
- most men won't add value to your life & you don't need to impress them, they need to impress you
- men benefit more than women in romantic relationships bc women do far more work (manual & emotional)
- if he's not a feminist he is not worth your time
- men will be threatened if you are more successful then them
- never date someone who doesn't cook, clean or talks shit about their mom
- the thing that bothers you now will be the reason why the relationship ends