pretty sure this is just the shrinkflation problem, and it's entirely realistic to get a bagel with an appropriate bun : filling ratio. though I will concede certain fillings for them are just dumb asf
If you have any kind of standards as a man, you will be an "incel" unless you got incredibly lucky before age 22.
The vast majority of "incels" are actually just normal guys who can't accept what the market is offering. Refusing to eat rotten produce is virtuous.