Highly recommend getting an old time umbrella if you are travelling light. Can hide a short cane in the folds, so easy to carry, and has a pointy tip to clack against the road so others hear when you are coming.
Kink is not therapy, though its therapeutic effects are undeniable. The best pairing if you want this sort of life impact, is to see a kink informed therapist in parallel with your exploration. Reminder: If there is no clinical process, it is not therapy ✨
An idea: a remote that lets you to make a male become mute. Because sometimes I do need to hear the males. Mostly just to hear them say “Yes, Mistress” though.
a lot of men want to be “trained” until they realize training means repetition, correction, consistency, and not being praised every time they do the bare minimum.
funny how fast the fantasy gets quiet.
Don’t know how I feel about males benefiting stylistically when they get a girlfriend. On one hand, at least they aren’t as ugly/boring as before. On other hand, having a woman personally choose their wardrobe and making sure they are fitted to the males comfort, unpaid as well.
Once again, a male “Dom” comes around pushing his fetishes of dominating Me to Me. Straight up told him that I don’t do submission or even fuck unknown people, dude keeps yapping about risk pregnancy and breeding.