The problem is too many of you think you should be able to simply exist and be rewarded with great love and community. That’s unrealistic. A very big part of loving people is treating them well and contrary to popular belief what you do for them IS a part of who you are.
Y’all aren’t good at seeing perspectives outside of your own and you expect to enter into relationships centering yourself. That’s the reason you’re so unsuccessful in dating and friendships
You be so quick to see if the grass is greener on the other side nd realize immediately that it’s not. Get depressed and start wondering why you destroyed your own happiness with your partner that actually gave a fuck about you.
I will say though every day I get on social media and I see why this generation has such a high depression/loneliness rate. Yall are not good people 😭 and yall don’t know how to be good friends/family members.
People come into your life to use you for their own convenience and then get mad when you ‘go off script’. You must’ve forgot I’m a real person with my own agenda and intentions. You will not force me to center you in my life like is you cool?
people with no character development scare me. like, how are you the same person you were three years ago, with no growth, no change in perspective, no evolution of the mind?
Watching someone’s insecurities and fears turn into self sabotage and ruin a connection with you in real time and knowing there’s nothing you can do to stop it is sad. You literally have to kinda let them lose you and grow/learn the hard way. Some lessons are best learned through experience.
Y’all want love and community for your benefit but don’t believe in reciprocating. Yall are extremely selfish and that’s why yall don’t have the friends or the relationships you desire most.
He’s asking because he’s doubting your fidelity. You think it’s disrespectful because your ego is hurt. If you are faithful give him peace of mind. Too many women gaslight, manipulate, and play victim only to find out she was in fact cheating and the baby isn’t his.