Women can get on the Internet everyday & say what type of Man they don’t like & its cool
But the minute a Man say it Automatically Gay or Hate Women
"Men hate women?"
No, they don't. They hate:
•Abusive women
•Manipulative women
•Entitled women
•Controlling women
•Dismissive women
•Rageful women
•Cheating women
•Lying women
•Gaslighting women
•Boundary-violating women
•Emotionally unavailable women
•Exploitative women
•Disrespectful women
•Insecure women who punish others for it
And also:
•Women who weaponize tears to escape consequences
•Women who use false accusations as leverage
•Women who confuse attention with affection
•Women who demand traditional benefits with zero traditional responsibility
•Women who scream "trauma" whenever accountability shows up
•Women who call disagreement "violence"
•Women who shame masculinity but fetishize its benefits
•Women who want equality only when it favors them
•Women who monetize victimhood & call it empowerment
•Women who treat men as disposable utilities
•Women who rewrite history after getting caught
•Women who mistake simping for respect
•Women who expect mind-reading instead of communication
•Women who call boundaries "control" when they don't benefit
•Women who label standards as "oppression"
•Women who think accountability is misogyny
•Women who think consequences are patriarchy
•Women who want protection without reciprocity
•Women who demand empathy but mock male pain
•Women who rewrite consent after regret
•Women who treat male silence as guilt
•Women who equate attention with entitlement
•Women who expect loyalty without giving it
•Women who demand emotional labor while offering none
•Women who punish honesty but reward deception
•Women who use social media as a public courtroom
•Women who test men just to fail them
•Women who confuse jealousy with love
•Women who demand vulnerability & then weaponize it
•Women who use past trauma as a permanent excuse
•Women who mock male weakness but demand sensitivity
•Women who expect provision without partnership
•Women who call boundaries "insecurity"
•Women who believe being offended makes them right
•Women who treat relationships as power games
•Women who outsource accountability to ideology
•Women who label criticism as "hate" to shut it down
•Women who believe feelings override facts
•Women who think respect is automatic but reciprocal effort is optional
•Women who call standards "misogyny" when they don't qualify
•Women who expect protection but offer zero loyalty
•Women who mistake validation for virtue
If you fall into any of these categories, don't blame men.
Blame the behavior you were told to call empowerment... & never questioned.
MEN ARE NOT THE PRIZE!!!
Okay;
"Men are not the prize", yet you paid your fellow women 10k for a book on how to bill a man.
"Men are not the prize", yet you do diabolical things to trap a man to marry you.
"Men are not the prize", but after you divorce your husband telling social media how horrible he is, still, your best friend went ahead and married him.
"Men are not the prize", but when your boyfriend propose to you, nobody hear word again online. Only you carry ring-light, post 13 videos about your engagement.
"Men are not the prize", yet your papa exchange you with 12 tubers of yam, 5 bags of rice, 5kegs of palm wine, 2 Nanny goats and 13k for bride price.
"Men are not the prize", But na you dey take risky trip all the way from Jos to Lagos to see that same man for the first time.
"Men are not the prize", but na you dey do fasting and prayer make God give you husband even if na Aki and pawpaw.
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Men are the prize because women made it so. If you think its a lie, come out from your marriage first. You fellow woman will still go for him regardless of the red flags he has. — Some of you reading this thread, your friends are already eyeing your boyfriend. They wish it was them that's in your position. If they have just one opportunity to sabotage your relationship and takeOver from you, they will do it!!
This is why when your Husband tells you to cut off from your friend,
He has already seen that she's either a bad influence to you, or she has her eyes on him.
But instead, you question him and defend your girl, until it happens
Then you start crying "I thought you were my friend".
Whether you like to hear it or not, Men are the Prize, and It doesn't make women less Valuable.