Do Di

[Do Di @DoDibuddie]

@timosanctus @kingfujoshi309 And that same Arian turned the STRAIGHT prince GAY and his kisses alone made said prince declar his love in front of the world

[Do Di @DoDibuddie]

@Rei_moomoo @kingfujoshi309 They always highlights Arian's love for Caleb but they chose to ignore or downplay Caleb's love for Arian because they don't like that their self insert loves his godfather just as deeply. That's the problem

[Do Di @DoDibuddie]

@kingfujoshi309 He didn’t even know they were the same Caleb. And just because Arian loved him since childhood doesn’t mean Caleb doesn’t love him just as much in return. It's fans imagining scenarios, sure, but thse fans clearly don’t understand how relationships work.

[Do Di @DoDibuddie]

Like be serious, you're changing CANON facts just because you don't want to accept the fact that Arian turned Caleb gay and that Caleb declared his love for him in front of the world

[Do Di @DoDibuddie]

Ermmm, every single post and piece of content about Arian, and I mean literally every single one, ends up putting him down just to make Caleb look better. At some point,just admit you’re all self-inserting into Caleb and move on

[Lui 🐇 Луї @l_o_u_i_s_s_y]

@DoDibuddie @men_who_yearn Ermmm explain me one more time again where exactly i downgrade Arian?

[Do Di @DoDibuddie]

@kingfujoshi309 I’ve said this before, but the fandom’s obsession with making Arian look like he loves Caleb more than Caleb loves him is ridiculous and kind if scary😭

[Do Di @DoDibuddie]

@kingfujoshi309 Emo’s Arian is so different from fandom's Arian. Every piece of content about Caleb and Arian turns Arian into this pathetic fool who’s constantly pining after Caleb, while Caleb is treated like he’s above jealousy, possessiveness, insecurity, or even loving Arian just as deeply

[Do Di @DoDibuddie]

@kingfujoshi309 watching Arian because he still can’t believe he’s lucky enough to have him in his life? I’m really trying to stay calm, but this fandom is ruining the couple for a lot of us. I'm even starting to deslike Caleb even tho it's not his fault his stans are bunch of self inserts

[Do Di @DoDibuddie]

@kingfujoshi309 And why can’t it be the other way around for once? Why is it ALWAYS Arian who has to be hopelessly in love, possessive, whipped, jealous, and insecure etc.. Why can’t Caleb be the one lying awake at night+

[Do Di @DoDibuddie]

@seikaaau If you don't love Arian that's okay but don't shit on him with these fan work content just to make Caleb look better.. y'all are going way too far with this insecure whipped Arian obsession.. it's no longer funny

[Do Di @DoDibuddie]

@seikaaau This is not cute at all, this is disrespectful and I'll never understand why are rbmk so obsessed with this UNHEALTHY DYNAMIC of making Arian so insecure and possessive and Caleb a disrespectful jerk who flirts with anyone with legs Infront of the man he claims to love

[Do Di @DoDibuddie]

@kenihello and it honestly takes away from the enjoyment for people who love both Caleb and Arian equally. If this is genuinely how some RBMK fans view relationships in real life, then I honestly feel sorry for the partners

[Do Di @DoDibuddie]

@kenihello So Caleb just doesn’t respect Arian at all? Because the way some of you talk about their dynamic, it sounds like Caleb would flirt with anyone and everyone right in front of his own partner. I love Caleb and RBMK, but you’re making their relationship sound UNNECESSARILY UNHEALTHY

[Do Di @DoDibuddie]

@l_o_u_i_s_s_y @men_who_yearn I don’t understand why it’s so hard for you all to admit that Caleb loved Arian that deeply, or that they loved each other EQUALLY.
You can love Caleb without constantly putting Arian down or changing canon just to make it look like Arian love Caleb more than Caleb loves him

[Do Di @DoDibuddie]

@l_o_u_i_s_s_y @men_who_yearn We don’t even know Arian’s sexuality, but Caleb literally and explicitly said he’s GAY, whether you like it or not. Caleb fell for Arian so hard that he started questioning everything he thought he knew about himself.

[Do Di @DoDibuddie]

@NimonJane18 It feels like they’re more interested in proving that Arian loves Caleb more than Caleb loves Arian, instead of appreciating the love and effort they both give each other.

[Do Di @DoDibuddie]

@NimonJane18 If that’s the expectation, then Caleb should spoil Arian too, but somehow they don’t want to see that side of their relationship

[Do Di @DoDibuddie]

@Obbbbb22 It's always Arian taking care of Caleb, Arian loving Caleb, Arian yearning for Caleb.. it's never the other way around. like I'm confused, do people in this fandom even love Arian or just use him as an emotional support dog for Caleb.. y'all are making their love look one sided