I saw a lady sharing that her man paid all the bills while she went to school and raised their kids. Now she's a registered nurse, and she's holding things down while he studies engineering. That's what partnership looks like.
@MyHeartcode Control, mold them like clay so they do things the way they will like. I was a 19 year old dating a man in his early 30’s. He wasn’t abusive just controlling but never fear mongered and manipulative tendencies didn’t work on me. He didn’t like that. I eventually ended us. 🤷🏻♀️
@omgsidewalks Yes, almost always management. Worked 2 weeks for 12 hours most days and an hour drive to and from and when I tried asking for a day off soon they told me to wait another week. I was so burnt out and I have another job on the side too and I couldn’t keep up.
@SM_TechB3aute Before my bf I never dated men with kids I gave my man a chance as he had one child. We’ve known each other over a decade but been dating for the last 5 and still going strong. 💪
@HistorianUSA1 Completely agree. If we have someone working in our home we always let them know where the bathroom is and offer a cold water. It’s not that hard to be a good person
@sengrahamresign@lettersfromjuno This is all circumstantial. I typically don’t mind if I can however if I know it’s going to be a freaking nightmare I will tell them sorry. I’m not about to do an hour of traffic IN the airport. Most of the time I offer but other times no.
@muheediva01 My bf asked for steak sauce when we went to my dad’s house (their first time meeting). My step mom likes steak sauce no matter how good the steak so my ITALIAN dad had steak sauce for her when she visits. 💀 I felt like I was being pranked.
@Vote4JKendall@Tmeier123@HorrorGorl My mom was 12. Parents moved in 08, owner wanted to sell. I worked 5+ years (since I could work) getting my wages higher, I move and right before I land a job they up the minimum wage so they said “we’ll pay you $1 more” housing went up so much I got priced out my last place. 💀
@muheediva01 It truly depends. If they were threatening you and/or did it very close near you or meant to threaten you, then it can be. Very tricky here. Also depends on where it happened.
@Jennie_ani78 The less I’m attracted to the WRONG man. I’m not going out on a date for free food or to be used for your intimate enjoyment just because you took me out. I’m dating for the long term, marriage, family, growing old together.
@uncledoomer Moved & had savings. YRS experience in working 2-3 jobs (two part time one full) & built my way to making more money. Moved and minum wage went up. Worked my tail off to get no more than what I was making because thats what I earned at my last 2 jobs, cost of living risen.