i realized that a lot of adults are healing their inner child and that's one of the reasons why i don't make fun of people who have "childish" hobbies. some people didn't get to have a childhood until they became adults.
Constantly talking about how things didnโt work out or somebody did you wrong just attracts a certain energy to me. Grieve it and move on. Fuck these people ๐ญ
Saw someone say โyou donโt get to starve a child of love and emotional safety for decades and then demand intimacy as an adult. You raised distance. Now sit with it.โ AND I FELT THAT BIH
this girl on TikTok said, โif I tell you all the trauma I endured from my mom and you look me dead in my face and tell me โthatโs still your momโ Iโm going to beat you how she beat me.โ and sheโs so real. stop undermining peopleโs trauma.
A woman I know was followed home at night.
She didnโt run. She didnโt yell. She laughed at his jokes. Complimented his shoes. Pretended she was flattered by the attention. She gave him her number just to make it home alive. Blocked it the second her door locked behind her. Men call this โleading someone on.โ Women call it survival. Men will never fully grasp the calculations women make in real time just to stay alive.