Your choice of friendships and relationships change once you start loving yourself. You only pick those who value and respect you truly. Self-love is a game changer.
“But among you are those who withhold [out of greed]. And whoever withholds only withholds [benefit] from himself; and Allah is the Free of need, while you are the needy”
—Qur’an 47:38
The truth is most of us have more than we need. We have practically all the basic necessities and more. Sadly, we tend to look at the few things we don't have & become depressed & despondent. Be careful because the Almighty doesn’t like ingratitude. He can take it away. Anytime!
I used to think running after people who don't really care about me is a part of my loyal personality. Now I've realized that I just didn't respect myself enough. I wasn't loyal to myself.
Learn to walk away from such toxicity. Choose people who choose you. Respect yourself.
Don’t be among those who constantly feed their material desires while neglecting their souls. Most people focus on material things like houses, jobs, cars etc forgetting that balance is essential in life if you’re to attain contentment and inner peace. Prioritise what matters!
Truth about wrong people :
They're not something bad that happened to you. They're not a punishment, they're your lesson. They're a source of growth. They make you stronger & wiser. They're not your enemy. They open your eyes.
Instead of hating, THANK them for your growth.🕊️
It's a bitter truth about life that you will lose some people in your life even if you never imagined it. Make peace with it. Accept that some people are not for you no matter how much you wanted them to be. Accept & value those who ARE still in your life no matter what happened.