if love ever finds me again, may the universe let me meet someone who loves me as deep as i do. Someone who is never okay with hurting me. Someone who is loyal, kind & devoted. Someone who will never make me feel unwanted, someone who feels like home & also finds home in me.
Right now my biggest focus is simple… get my money right, be the best person I can be, and make sure I’m genuinely happy for real. That’s the lane I’m in. That’s the only thing I care about.🫶🏾
PLEASE STOP creating bonds with the children of the single MOTHER you’re dating. No one talks about this enough, & yes, stepdads matter. But if you don’t plan on being there for those kids after you & the mom stop talking, leave them ALONE. It’s sad enough their biological fathers aren’t around. Don’t put a child through that same rejection just because you only want to be around when things are good with their mom. That’s FAKE love.
If you truly care about the kids, even though they’re not your own, don’t let anyone come between that bond, stand on it. KEEP IT SOLID OR KEEP IT MOVING.