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@dilanesper@kimanisa @452Bullmoose @Sebastian_Hols Exactly. The status quo gives the parents ultimate control. Maybe that’s the real dilemma. When do we take away that control? Who gets to decide? How would we regulate this? Let’s think outside the status quo, not try to shoehorn a process into an already malfunctioning system.
@dilanesper @452Bullmoose @Sebastian_Hols So let’s take that step back together. I know that outing trans kids to their parents as a rule will not help them. You know they need medical help. We’re both right. Is it possible that the true issue lies in how we treat trans kids & the legal issues surrounding medical care?
@dilanesper @452Bullmoose @Sebastian_Hols I agree. They do need help. But the way you want to help them historically does NOT work as a general rule, so much so that this law was enacted. Take a step back and think about it. If your preferred solution will cause more harm than help, it’s no solution at all.
@dilanesper@kimanisa @452Bullmoose @Sebastian_Hols Because that never goes sideways? Come on man, you need to take off the rose-colored glasses here. Ideally the abuse would stop and the child would be placed somewhere safe. But that’s so rarely how it actually goes, isn’t it?
@dilanesper @452Bullmoose @Sebastian_Hols And this right here is the crux of the issue- you want to help them. But you are not qualified to tell those with lived experience what you think is best for them when you have only ancillary understanding. Those directly impacted by this disagree with you. Consider why that is.
@dilanesper @452Bullmoose @Sebastian_Hols These are in fact sub-categorized in both of the links I provided. A simple google search will give you even more data. I will agree that current youth vs adult trans populations had very different experiences but this is not a small percentage of trans kids who are homeless.
@kimanisa@dilanesper @452Bullmoose @Sebastian_Hols I feel he cares so much for the well-being of trans kids that he wants to make sure their parents can support them as he would. Those of us who know (or have been) the casualties in the ditches by the road of good intentions know better. That’s how that road got its name.
@kimanisa@dilanesper @452Bullmoose @Sebastian_Hols If anything, I think it’s *because* he would never see children as a disposable commodity that is influencing his viewpoint here. It can be hard for good people/parents to comprehend the depths of horror to which bad parents/people can descend.
@dilanesper @452Bullmoose @Sebastian_Hols MANY trans kids are homeless, at a much higher rate than cisgender LGBT youth. I think the issue here is that you are a very good person who could never do this to your own child, so you can’t comprehend that so many other parents would. But they would. They do. Hence this law.