@UnholyHaps666 there's no rules for irl kink dynamics besides informed, ongoing, and enthusiastic consent. harm reduction is also good, but that's more like a guiding principle than a rule in my opinion.
@UnholyHaps666 it can be whatever you want it to be!! for some people it's about humiliation in reliving our forced misgendering and for others it's about an alternative reality where someone sees our true self and forces us to flourish despite society's transphobia
currently reviving an old sona i used to use as a kid on furry erp servers. idk if it's healing my inner child or retraumatizing myself but i'm definitely gonna draw her getting raped and jerk off to it.