As a man,
If you're married to a first daughter child from a struggling family, & you're also from a shrugging family.
Please take care of your immediate family first.
But when you want to extend kindness to your extended family, please do it to your own siblings first.
Your wife's family will be highly dependent on your income, and your own family will be looking to you for help too.
Please uplift your own family out of poverty first, before thinking of your wife's.
Otherwise, your wife will use your money to upgrade her family and later shame your own family for being poor & even try to block you from helping them.
Forget that she's your wife and mother of your children.
She also has brothers, and her brothers will do the same if they were in your shoes.
End.
@jon_d_doee Yes sir I do, a lot of women see a relationship as a daddy daughter relationship where the guy carries out fatherly duties which is provision
Having money doesn’t make you a spec.
Money attracts b@d intentions, but being good looking and attractive pulls pure intentions.
Work on yourself and become attractive as a man. That way, you’ll attract your real spec and she’ll love you the right way.
@jon_d_doe Yes Sir…a girl blocked me because of this topic, this is a harsh truth ladies have to accept, it would be very difficult to see a married man that has never cheated on his wife and even the ones that claim they’ve not cheated most times are just telling lies