I see folk say "you can 'xyz' and they'll still cheat"
True enough.. but a very Eyeore like outlook.
Intentionally opting out or abstaining from said 'xyz' just seems like a passive aggressive way to disengage without being seen as the villain.
Ive typed amd deleted my post bout 12 times just now. Because I KNOW that words do nothing... and mean nothing at the end of the day. Ppl just say shit that sounds good, but never practice the preaching.
Its always special when someone taps into the parts of you that have been neglected, and eases them without really knowing the severity of the deprivation.