Dr. Stan Tatkin

Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT, is a clinician, researcher, teacher, and developer of A Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy® (PACT).

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You'll get to work directly with us over the course of 8 Sundays to become better communicators, build intimacy, and make your relationship more secure. Learn more and grab your spot here: https://t.co/afE6nnN4rL

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Have you and your partner resolved to improve your relationship this year?

One of the best ways to jump-start that resolution is to join a Wired for Love Online Workshop. My wife, Dr. Tracey Boldemann-Tatkin, and I are teaching our next workshop starting on February 1st.

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Think of your relationship like a three-legged race. You are tied together. The best way to get where you want to be is to work together.

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It may seem counterintuitive, but this principle will benefit your relationship with family and friends just as much as it benefits your romantic relationship.

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Level 1 is a rigorous 40-hour training spanning four two-day sessions to give you the foundational skills of PACT’s practical mind-body approach to couple therapy. CE Hours are available (APA, NYSED, and NBCC).

Grab your spot now! https://t.co/6OVAU24IMl

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A quick message for therapists:

If you're interested in learning my approach to couple therapy, don't miss your chance to join PACT Level 1. Our next session runs from February 7th - April 12th, and we won't offer this level again until fall.

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Don't miss the opportunity to work with us to build a more secure and lasting relationship through 8 live online sessions. 

Grab your spot here: https://t.co/afE6nnN4rL

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It’s your last chance to join me in my next Wired for Love Workshop! 

My wife, Dr. Tracey Boldemann-Tatkin, and I teach Wired for Love Workshops only a couple of times a year.

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Creating a shared purpose and shared vision as a couple will help you structure a relationship that benefits both of you for years to come.

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Relationships are team sports. Anything that hurts your partner, hurts you as well.

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Communication is difficult enough on a good day. When you’re under stress or discussing emotionally sensitive topics, the potential for errors increases exponentially.

Don’t make it harder by adding multiple topics into the mix in a fight. Focus on one issue at a time.

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This simple agreement will drastically improve your chances of resolving disagreements with your partner: "We only argue over one topic at a time. The first topic introduced wins."

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When you're creating shared principles, you must ensure that both of you *enthusiastically* agree on them.

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You'll get to join me and my wife, Dr. Tracey Boldemann-Tatkin, for 8 live online sessions that will help you fight better, improve intimacy, soothe yourself and your partner, and more. Learn more here: https://t.co/afE6nnN4rL

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Looking for more in-depth guidance on improving your relationship? You can now sign up for my next Wired for Love Online Workshop starting on February 1st!

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Join us here: https://t.co/afE6nnN4rL

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You don't have to have been raised in a family that promoted secure attachment to create a secure-functioning relationship. Most of us have to learn how to do this as adults.

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My wife, Dr. Tracey Boldemann-Tatkin, and I created an online Wired for Love Workshop to help you do that. We'll spend 8 Sundays helping you and a small group of other couples better understand your partner, resolve conflicts, and create a lasting, fulfilling relationship.

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Try to spend some time every day embracing each other or gazing into each other's eyes. This kind of contact evokes feelings of intimacy and safety in a relationship. It can even restore those feelings if they were threatened.

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Create a culture with your partner that will protect you when you face inevitable challenges together.