If you're broke it's more difficult, but if you're rich it becomes a walk in the park. You people should take that boy Gehgeh serious, most of the things he spits are facts. These girls will stress you once they detect you're broke, but if they're convinced you're rich they will spend their last card on you to impress you. I have seen this happen years ago, I wanted to mad, this girl was using one of those China android phones saved up money to buy power bank for a guy that was using an iphone, this was when iphones were a really big deal. She will save up money and give him to fuel his car, and this gut doesn't even like her one bit, it's so bad that even if she threw herself naked at him, he wouldn't knack her, that was how disinterested he was. I know cos both of them were my friends.
It's not about your confidence most times, it's about how they perceive you. Same girls giving you conditions before they will date you is begging another man asking "when are you going to invite me to your house?"
These girls don't have level at all, I don't rate them one bit. Most of them are looking for survival not love, your confidence won't move these women if your account balance doesn't match. These girls may even genuinely love you but still turn you down if you're broke. There is no true romantic connection in Nigeria, for most girls, it's about money. It's a cruel world.
The man you see in the mirror at 18-24 is still in beta.
Life has a way of testing your patience, resilience, and priorities.
By 25-30, failures will have humbled you, losses will have educated you, and heartbreaks will have sharpened you.
Your mindset, your discipline, and your ambitions will evolve whether you like it or not.
Decisions that seemed monumental at 20 will feel trivial at 28.
Friendships you clung to will fade, and new alliances will shape your trajectory.
Money, health, and purpose gain a clarity you never had in your early twenties.
The person you were chasing at 22 may not even exist at 27.
Your desires mature, your focus intensifies, and your boundaries become non-negotiable.
Mistakes that haunted you in your youth will become lessons you silently apply.
You’ll start valuing depth over appearances and substance over validation.
By 30, you understand the cost of wasted time, the power of consistency, and the weight of integrity.
The adult you think you are at 18-24 is an amateur; the real version of you is forged through struggle and growth.
Life rewards patience, self-work, and a refusal to settle for mediocrity.
Your twenties are a rough draft; your late twenties and early thirties are the edited masterpiece.
Expect to shock yourself with how much stronger, wiser, and sharper you become.
The evolution is inevitable, resist the urge to cling to youth and embrace the growth.
By the time you hit 30, your past self will feel like a stranger, and your future self will demand respect.
Every struggle, delay, and rejection in your early years is sculpting the man you are meant to be.
Embrace the process, and watch the adult you become exceed the one you imagined.
I finished with 2:2 i studied mechanical engr 2 years ago, people told me getting a job will be so hard, plus I decided to skip NYSC, which made people laugh at me. Mind you I had no skill, no connection, no mentor, I picked up a skill locked in and tried everything in a year and today I have made more $10k+ in one year working for international brands, plus I have also helped others land their first remote job. all in 2 years🌟🌟.
You will cry and struggle, but you will be fine as long as you start acquiring knowledge.
Don't let anyone decide your future you can do it yourself.... Just like me.
Dear Nigerians‼️ Pls do not joke with this warning. Read & share widely. This is not about politics. Tinubu's relentless pursuit of foreign aid threatens to plunge Nigeria into its darkest era yet, a pit from which recovery may be impossible.
GMOs will fuck us all!!
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