Corporations tell their employees they are all 'Family'
because the work hours will be long enough
that nobody is going to be spending any time
with their ACTUAL Family
>Doesn't want to be treated like a sex object
>Wants to use sex appeal to get ahead in life
Pick one, because you don't get to have it both ways.
If you want people to focus on what you can do, provide value
If you use sex appeal to get ahead, you'll be treated as a sex object
Your first attempt might not be very good, but nobody's early work is good. There will always be a gap between where you are and where you want to be. And the bridge between that gap is courage. The courage to look foolish in the beginning. The courage to show up again when your early work is criticized. The courage to look yourself in the mirror and say, "I realize I'm not good enough yet, but the only way to get better is to keep working on it."