and im sorry for the poor wording, Im not digesting this very well mostly bcz people are buying it so easily when ive had so many ppl telling me privately that it comes off as a nothing burger
Was I bitchy to him? Oh absolutely and I should've thought better before saying those things to him, I have anger issues and I detach to people easily which are both things I wanna work on myself, I wish I could apologise or discuss this with him but it's not mutual for sure