Invalidating someone’s struggle because you can’t relate to it is actually a sign of low emotional intelligence. You can be grateful for your own experience and still show sympathy and support to others; that’s how we’re supposed to treat each other in the first place :)
They're no single dads in the African community. Single dads get help from grandmothers, aunties and every living female relative or friends. Single mothers get to do it on their own .