You're a working adult, why can't you share bill with your husband? Asking this question is so stupid of you. Your husband is struggling but see where your head is.
It is your husband you're calling "any man." Abeg getat
If a woman gives you another man's child to raise - paternity fraud, anything you do, I'll understand.
No limit.
God forbid I'm in that position, unforgiveness would be the least of your worries. In your best interest, just disappear.