Crystal

A Beacon on a Hill

[Big Uncle @Usmanashafe]

Ilaje people with the doings 🙌🏽😂😂

[Jade Osiberu @jadeosiberu]

I know a number of people who didn’t marry their “spec” but are in the healthiest marriages I know. Their spec was typically whatever was culturally deemed to be at the apex of the attractiveness pyramid when they were growing up. For a lot of guys in my generation, it was the music video “vixens” from the late 90s/early 2000s Hip & R&B music videos with ‘coke bottle figures’ and or light skinned eurocentric features. When it’s time to find a partner for the very serious endeavor of sharing a life with, that “spec” is simply inadequate as a measure of compatibility and that’s understandable. The foolishness though is communicating it as though their partner somehow didn’t measure up to their “spec” instead of simply admitting that the idea of their spec was stupid all along and a young boy’s lack of wisdom of what makes a good life partner.

Communicating publicly or even privately to your partner that they weren’t your spec to begin with may seem harmless, after-all you’re just being honest. But subconsciously, it’s an ego trip for you who “settled” and for your the partner, it’s a chip they will always carry on their shoulder that to you, they aren’t quite enough. They’re missing something you had always longed for, so much so that you still consider it to be your “spec”. It’s an unnecessary mind fuck and a cruel thing to say about somebody who is sharing a life with you. No matter how flowery you are with the compliments that come after. You’ve already knocked them down several pegs.

If the point is to say your spec changed then talk about the stupidity of having a spec to begin with. Because I’ve never heard anyone in these situations talk about character attributes being their spec, it’s always superficial stuff. Or speak about how meeting your partner opened your eyes to what true beauty is. Speak in ways that elevate and affirm your partner.

[𝗠𝘂𝗵𝗲𝗲 ♛ @muheediva01]

Next time you feel bad about buying new clothes, Just remember, some poeple are buying drugs.

[OurFaveOnlineDoc 🇬🇧 🇳🇬 @OurFavOnlineDoc]

It’s 31days since Oyo children were taken.
It’s 31days since Oyo children were taken.
It’s 31days since Oyo children were taken.
It’s 31days since Oyo children were taken.
It’s 31days since Oyo children were taken.

Pls keep speaking up.
Pls share for the world to see this.
💔

[Kola Omotoso @kolapo__o]

To my Knights ❤️,

What started as a dream became one of the most incredible journeys of my life, and I couldn't have done it without you. Thank you for every vote, every post, every prayer, every trend, and every word of encouragement. Your belief in me kept me going through it all.

To the @BBNaija platform, thank you for the opportunity, the lessons, the memories, and the chance to share my story with the world.

This chapter may be over, but our journey is only just beginning. I leave with a grateful heart, new experiences, and even bigger dreams.

Thank you for riding with me every step of the way.

Forever grateful,
Kola❤️🙏

[Kola Omotoso @kolapo__o]

Never out of character. Never out of style

[IMISIOLUWA🧡 @imisiofficial]

Superstar ✨

[Crystal @Ebhatnse]

You dragged VICTORY for having gutter mouth and being Uncouth.

You are currently Dragging KOLA for not getting messy.

Double standards!

#Bbnaija

[Crystal @Ebhatnse]

KOLA did what was best for him. Y’all are just sad he’s didn’t have a blow off so you can drag him #bbnaija

[Kola Omotoso @kolapo__o]

Tailored for the moment

[OurFaveOnlineDoc 🇬🇧 🇳🇬 @OurFavOnlineDoc]

Today is day25 of the Oyo Children Kidnap. Today is day25 of the Oyo Children Kidnap. Today is day25 of the Oyo Children Kidnap.

Today is day25 of the Oyo Children Kidnap. Today is day25 of the Oyo Children Kidnap. Today is day25 of the Oyo Children Kidnap.

Pls help speak up.

[BIG SOSO @itsbigsoso]

That Girl....
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Dress : @kristol_fashion_
Designer: @styledwithjenz
Video : @kat3_ray
Makeup : @glamsbyjoan
Hair : @lushnovahair

[Crystal @Ebhatnse]

@kolapo__o KAKS❤️

[Nicky💕 @jas_d_barbie]

I need a “tadaa” from God this week🥹.

[Kola Omotoso @kolapo__o]

OMOLÙÀBÍ

[Rema Boy @fw_rema]

Gonna cost $0 to repost. 🥹🇳🇬

[Haduke @i_am_haduke]

Retweet massively please, it won’t cost you a single Naira. 💔💔

[Duke of Africa @Allezamani]

Repost without saying anything.

[JUST KINGS @JustKingss]

If this appears on your timeline, just repost. #SaveOyoChildren

[Star Potter @Starpotternews]

Band!ts have released new videos of the kidn@pped teachers in Ogbomoso after 14 days in captivity.

Repost for the world to see😭