I raise you the catena “Who is she, that comes forth as the morning rising, FAIR AS THE MOON, BRIGHT AS THE SUN, TERRIBLE AS AN ARMY SET IN BATTLE ARRAY”
Seeeeeeeee nauuuuuuuuuu🥰❤️🥰🥰🥰
Looking at other people (Especially influencers) as relationship goals, instead of working with your person to create your own relationship, financial & wellness goals.
It just shouts “I want the delusion, not the reality”.
When someone you love is in trouble, you expect them to have some emotional alignment towards you first. Show some concern before calculation.
When you call your wife and say, “Babe, I’ve been arrested,” the first thing you’re listening for is care.
Not solutions.
Care!
“Are you okay? Are you safe?”
“Where are you? Are you hurt?”
“I’m coming.”
That’s it.
Everything else can wait 30 seconds.
Because in moments of perceived danger, the human nervous system isn’t asking for efficiency. It’s asking, “Am I alone?”
When your partner jumps straight to logistics, “All your contacts couldn’t get you out?” it can feel like you’ve been downgraded from a loved one to a random case file.
So let me get this straight: Nigeria is still importing billions of naira worth of petroleum products each year because the Dangote Refinery, despite its massive capacity, hasn't fully displaced entrenched import interests and supply challenges, yet the refinery is exporting gasoline and other fuels to the U.S. because it produces enough surplus to meet global demand. This country is not real.
Yes, Professor Joash Amupitan served on President Tinubu's legal team at the Presidential Election Petition Court, defending his 2023 victory against challengers. Tinubu nominated him as INEC chairman on October 9, 2025, replacing Mahmood Yakubu, and the National Council of State approved the appointment. This raises questions about impartiality in Nigeria's electoral body, though Amupitan is described as an apolitical law professor.
Life isn’t all about making money or chasing economic power, some people find comfort and solace in spirituality or religion. Even the china you all speak of have monks and spiritualists who have found peace in their search and pursuit for eternal life with no interest in the wealth of the world. Because you haven’t experienced life events that has left you with no choices doesn’t make you wiser, a billion religious people can’t all be stupid. Just live and let live