Before you get married, your woman will show you almost all her possible red flags.
It's only if you're not paying close attention that you'll not see them.
But to her, she showed them to you.
Top of them is mental energy.
Another, is how she dresses, the type of friends
@jon_d_doe Agba you are right. The woman is the head of the home not the father. For her to be the one asking the guy questions means a lots.
The guy should just move on with his life and look for another lady to start afresh.
@instablog9ja Nigerians don't believe all these lies anymore, since 1960 what are they doing before things get worst like this. No politician is trusted in this country again. You are all fighting for yourself.
@instablog9ja Nah people like this ladies will tell go and lock the door and they will stand up and rush to do that before letting them have sex, oga wife just didn't start negotiating with you in marriage, she started that long ago before marriage.
@jon_d_doe She shouldn't be feeling pressured when none of the husband family members is calling her to pressure her even the husband never did in his story. The woman might be cheating and she wants to catch the husband first. Let just wait for the man's feedback.
@jon_d_doe My own opinion, the marriage shouldn't have stand since it's just intro and the trust is not there again. You seems you can never forgive the woman again.