If You Don’t Help Me, Lord…”
If You don’t help me, Lord, I’ll fall,
There’s no one left to hear my call.
No friend to run to, no hand to hold,
Just silent nights and heart grown cold.
The arms I trusted let me go,
The paths I knew don't seem to show.
The voices I leaned on fade away,
And I have no strength left to pray.
But still I whisper through the pain,
A fragile hope I can't explain.
If You don’t rise, I cannot stand—
So here I am, Lord, take my hand.
I have no Plan B, no second door,
I’ve hit the bottom, nothing more.
It’s You or nothing, this I know—
Without Your light, I can't go.
Be near me in this storm I face,
I’m desperate now for just one trace—
Of mercy’s hand, of heaven’s sign,
A proof that even now, You’re mine.
Don’t let this darkness write my end,
You are my Father, God, and Friend.
Though men may leave, You never will—
Though I am broken, You are still.
Still God. Still kind. Still holding tight,
Still turning ashes into light.
Still calling dry bones back to life,
Still calming every wave and strife.
So I will wait—though weak and worn—
I’ll trust You, though my heart is torn.
If You don’t help me, none can try…
But You are God—so I won’t die.
“Majority of younger Christians are beginning to forget the fact that Jesus is coming again”
“People are now more concerned about prosperity, their more concerned about fame”
~ Pst. E.A Adeboye
“If you’re looking for a man that will love you for who you are, then talk to your father”
—A relationship therapist sparked debate after arguing that relationships should be built on mutual value, claiming that both partners must bring something meaningful to the table rather than expecting unconditional love without contributing to the relationship.
“You go think say you don hold man until you disrespect am”
— A Nigerian lady shares her opinion on relationships, emphasizing that love lasts longer when both partners maintain mutual respect. According to her, no matter how much affection exists, constant disrespect can gradually destroy even the strongest relationship. ❤️🫶🏽
Now even Christians are encouraging and recommending everyone to go and watch Polygamist.
I won't lie—I tried to watch it after seeing so many people talking about it on TikTok and other social media platforms. I struggled to move past two minutes, and the reason was simple: the sexual scenes.
One thing many believers fail to understand is that you cannot be praying against lust, pornography, masturbation, and sexual addiction while feeding your mind with content that awakens the very desires you are asking God to help you overcome.
Some people are wondering why they keep falling into temptation. The answer is simple: what you entertain eventually influences you.
If you are trying to stop masturbating and watching pornography, but your daily entertainment is filled with sexual scenes, nudity, adultery, and immorality, your battle will become much harder.
As Christians, we must learn to guard our hearts and our eyes.
The Bible says:
"Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it."
What enters your eyes eventually enters your mind, and what enters your mind eventually affects your actions.
What surprises me is seeing some Christian women judging all men based on a movie.
A movie is not reality.
Not every man is a polygamist.
Not every husband is a cheat.
Not every marriage is destined to fail.
Not every man is secretly living a double life.
As the world is talking about Polygamist, can we also talk about Monogamist?
Can we talk about the thousands of faithful husbands who wake up every morning and choose their wives?
Can we talk about men who have opportunities to cheat but refuse because they honor God and respect their marriage vows?
Can we talk about men who stay committed through financial struggles, sickness, misunderstandings, and difficult seasons?
Can we talk about men who are raising their children, providing for their families, and remaining faithful when nobody is applauding them?
Because they exist.
It is possible for a man to be married to one woman.
It is possible for a man not to commit adultery.
It is possible for a man to reject a woman who is trying to seduce him.
It is possible for a man to remain loyal even when temptation is available.
It is possible for a man to honor his vows until death.
The problem with our generation is that movies, social media, and celebrity culture have become our teachers.
People are forming opinions about marriage from Netflix instead of Scripture.
People are learning relationships from movies instead of God's Word.
People are allowing entertainment to define what they believe about men, women, marriage, and family.
As believers, our standard is not movies.
Our standard is not TikTok.
Our standard is not trends.
Our standard is not celebrity opinions.
Our standard is the Word of God.
The Bible is our blueprint for marriage.
The Bible teaches faithfulness.
The Bible teaches commitment.
The Bible teaches self-control.
The Bible teaches covenant.
The Bible teaches that marriage is honorable and should be protected.
Before I watch any movie, I ask myself one question:
"What is the end result of this?"
Will it build my faith?
Will it strengthen my values?
Will it bring me closer to God?
Will it help me become a better husband, wife, father, mother, or believer?
Not everything that is popular is profitable.
Not everything that is trending is beneficial.
And not everything that everyone is watching should be watched by a child of God.
Let's be careful what we consume.
Let's stop allowing movies to become our theology.
Let's stop judging an entire gender because of a script written for entertainment.
And let's remember that while the world may celebrate confusion, God's design for marriage has not changed.
The Bible remains our standard.
#mybodyisatemple #HolySpirit
“Your husband is your guardian, your father, and protector. He comes first before your immediate parents. Always honor him,” A Nigerian woman advises other women.
A woman is loyal to her sacrifice. Doing too much to impress a woman is a waste of time, energy, and resources.
It’s easy for a woman to walk out of a relationship because she has barely anything to lose. She didn’t really invest much.
To men: Before you wed any woman, make sure she contributes at least 30% of the total wedding expenses. Any woman who has invested her money in the wedding will find it hard to just walk away.
Apostle Johnson suleman you said it right.
A Thousand tounges can Never be enough to say thank you, Jesus!!!
How do you say “Thank You Lord” in your language?
Truly, our victory is secured by His Blood and His Name...