ElevenSage

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@Noir15662 Florence passed this test ✅

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@AMB0915 @AishaaaMarie @thekonyjen Baby there ain’t much to pick from clearly that’s why we’re here lmao

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@hbfromkc_ @LoliManiac0 @AishaaaMarie @NoshrtCutz Girl some of us have jobs that require anonymity. Either way all of your replies have been senseless and unresponsive. Maybe you’re the bot lmao

I only been talking about the real subject at hand.

Far from white or boy.

But you, are quite close to clinically delusional.

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@Marcella520124 @284VerXailles @AishaaaMarie I don’t mean “settle” in that way. But your senseless mistake has made me realize where that phrase came from. Lol. I literally just meant once she has found somebody I would love to see her prove that her method of holding out actually worked

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@bauble_k @Beebalm22 @HeisPerfected @AishaaaMarie For those of us who I found healthy partnership, we would be devastated to think about an alternative situation where we did not find such.

And what now is just that she simply don’t have a lover to rub on her feet amongst other things. I need that lmao

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@caramel_shan @AishaaaMarie Wanting romantic love is a natural human desire that is suppressed otherwise. That’s why yes I do assume that deep down our bodies respond positively to the serotonin and endorphins that are released when we engage with romantic partners.

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@JoysSparkle @AishaaaMarie Nope. We agreed to things such as church, counseling, connection to healthy role models and we both grew together. Sounds like mutual growth through love.

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@Anonoqbn @284VerXailles @lyndz_20 @AishaaaMarie Feels like I’m losing brain cells to explain this, but in my analogy, the car represents a partner and the bus represents all the other people in the world who are not your partner

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@JoysSparkle @AishaaaMarie My grandma told me earlier on that these men have to be “trained” because most of them were fatherless as op said

So when dating my hubby I clocked the areas that needed improvement, held the line & refused to let my standards go. Then would you believe he rose to the occasion

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@CliffKanu @AishaaaMarie Now that might be the best thing anybody has said on the whole thread👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

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@Beebalm22 @HeisPerfected @AishaaaMarie Not an issue, just no romantic talks or touches or joint partnership goals with a lover. Can yall admit it’s more lonely and sad? And that family/friends can only fill so many gaps before there’s a natural, human emptiness from being unpartnered. Like plz bffr.

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@Anonoqbn @284VerXailles @lyndz_20 @AishaaaMarie We’re not talking about the benefits of having a car but if we were applying the analogy correctly you would see that nobody would prefer to share what’s theirs with the general public (on a bus), most of us would rather have our own cars even if it needed repairs

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@JoysSparkle @AishaaaMarie Lmao not a woman?! I done birthed two kids and married!

But anyway, are you that delusional to think that with a man who met her standards and added peace to her life, she would still choose to be single?

She is single, but it’s definitely not by choice. It’s by disappointment

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@Beebalm22 @HeisPerfected @AishaaaMarie But if you have found what you wanted, you would not be OK being without that person or being asexual.

You’re only convincing yourself that you’re OK because you don’t have what you want. And honestly that is really unfortunate. 🙏🏾

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@bauble_k @Beebalm22 @HeisPerfected @AishaaaMarie tf? Nobody is thinking about the subject matter of this whole discussion ?? which is finding partnership

Well yeah that would actually explain a lot lol

Clearly she can’t find somebody to match and she’s waited presumably her entire adult life up until this point

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@JoysSparkle @AishaaaMarie Lmao yes and that class is what we call an incel. A person who is involuntarily unpartnered and sexless

I believe that’s what the whole country calls them actually 🥸

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@Beebalm22 @HeisPerfected @AishaaaMarie You’re missing it. She’s still single!

What’s the solution to that?

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@Beebalm22 @HeisPerfected @AishaaaMarie No but what actual solution are yall suggesting then?

And damn that’s a really unfortunate for those who experience that

For me, the lady always comes first and usually multiple times 😉

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@JoysSparkle @AishaaaMarie No