Convinced this account is an Indian man. I can not fathom, or won’t let myself believe there are women out there who are this useless and obsessed with male validation.
Girls, when left to their own devices (literally), fall prey to the mass influence of other females. They’ll always end up copying each other’s looks, style and beliefs. It’s not a bad thing per se, it’s natural female behaviour.
As cringe as it sounds, the only solution is to have a man that you listen to instead of other women.