Telling yourself that you're in total control of your reality removes the expectation that someone or something "higher than you" is what's giving you want you want. It ultimately means that you won't have to worry about whether you're doing everything right, as you literally are
Everything has always been about identity. Doubts, feelings, circumstancesβare all futile and irrelevant by default unless you say otherwise. Stop identifying yourself with the opposite of what you want, you are in control
I donβt remember if I left it in the sitting area, or in the street when I had to lift my luggage, but I lost it either way. When the realisation hit, I quickly told myself that the jumper was fine, but then quickly forgot about it. When coming back to my apartment
Do not let negative emotions blind you from having what you wantβas said emotions are futile and fallacious, with no grounds to manifest the opposite of what you want. Think in your favour regardless and you'll obtain it with absolute certainty
Whatever you tell yourself is the truth, without any contradiction, is whatβs true for you. Itβs as simple as that. Quit irrelevant nonsense such as feeling, belief, the technique you use etc, as you are source of all there is.