“Show me your friends and I'll tell you who you are" – we’ve all heard this. But have you considered: "Show me your enemies and I'll show you your friends"?
Our associations shape us in profound ways. True friends uplift and challenge us, while enemies often define our boundaries and strengths. Choose your circle wisely, for they reflect and influence who you are. Surround yourself with those who inspire growth and integrity, and you'll rise above negativity.
Remember, both friends and foes play a role in shaping your journey. Embrace the lessons from both.
#PowerOfAssociation #ChooseWisely #LifeLessons
To be honest, mentally I’m not in the best place. There’s a lot going through my mind. I’m not sad or depressed. Just doing a whole lot of thinking and reflecting but I can’t make sense of certain things which can be a bit frustrating. Fighting battles silently. I’ll win though🤍
You need mentors in life. To help you grow. To help you discover pathways you haven’t yet been. To give you access to sit at the tables you couldn’t have access to. 👏🏾🙏🏻
Family, parent, sibling, colleague, friend, girlfriend, wife. Any of those people, if they are judgemental, they deserve to be lied to. Lie. Let them call you liars. Let's tell truth to people who allow us to be vulnerable and tell our truth. Everyone else, fundja ombwa.
No one wants to address the issue of having a partner with no ambition or goals in life. No skills, educational plan, business plan or anything. Just “where you at” every weekend.
Date someone who is interested in you .l don't mean someone who thinks you're cute or funny .I mean someone who wants to know every insignificant detail about you There's a difference between attraction and interest ,find the person who wants to learn every aspect of who you are
You can learn a lot about people from what they lack. If they lack accountability, they'll shift the blame. If they lack communication skills, they'll say you're arguing. If they lack emotional intelligence, they'll call you sensitive. If they lack effort, they're not interested.
The degree debates, the car issue, talking down of peoples jobs or way of life issue, be very careful. Life is a long and tedious process, you can think you’re on top… You can be humbled anytime. Stay humble.
Okay, now that we have people that can organize Kabza shows, can we please also have people that can organize a huge Worship Night that involves inviting Apostle Joshua Selman? 🤷🏽♀️ Personally just wanna Worship & Praise the whole night with my fellows🥲