Ngl a woman cannot be your peace if you're not providing the environment for her to provide the peace. Stop expecting from a woman that you constantly are giving problems, challenges and you're not providing a safe space for her. Peace is present where security is found.
You can literally feel it in your soul when it's TIME. time to move on from people, time to make a change in your life, time to get rid of unhealthy habits, time to want MORE for yourself. At some point, you'll just KNOW. That's your call