As a man, when the options present & it is time for you to choose a partner, I hope you choose the soft babe.
The one whose consistent demeanor is '🥹'
The one gentle in expression, kind in communication & non combative.
Leave komodo dragons alone for animal control.
High intelligence often comes with heightened pattern recognition. You start noticing social masks, forced conversations, performative friendships, hidden motives, emotional immaturity, and energy that feels draining instead of nourishing. Many highly intelligent people also have more active nervous systems, deeper inner worlds, and lower tolerance for superficial stimulation, so solitude can feel safer than constantly shrinking themselves to fit environments that don't feel aligned.
@anishmoonka Crazy take...the greatest competition in the world, the FIFA world Cup is the same format as the UCL. Give it all the respect it deserves.
i don’t know if these are survival tips but they might help;
1. i treat savings like a bill. the moment money comes in, a percentage leaves my account before i even think about spending it.
2. i avoid lifestyle inflation, just because my income increases doesn’t mean my expenses should rise with it.
3. i keep an invisible account. money goes in, but there’s no card attached and no easy access, so spending it takes deliberate effort.
4. i buy quality once instead of replacing cheap things repeatedly, the upfront cost hurts but the long term savings are worth it.
5. i follow a strict 48 hr rule for non essential purchases. if i still want it after 2 days, then i consider it buying it.
6. i always keep an emergency cash buffer. it prevents panic and protects me from making bad financial decisions under pressure.
7. i track small daily expenses. snacks, rides, gifts and impulse purchases often drain more money than the big expenses.
8. whenever a new financial commitment enters my life, something else has to go, it keeps spending under control and prevents silent lifestyle creep.
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@oyimzy One Chelsea fan from Kenya used his hard-earned money to travel to Budapest just to hatewatch Arsenal. Kenyans do elite hatewatching ffs – it is an art.
I remember a day I had a big f!ght with my hubby.
I knew I was wrong, but as usual I was claiming tough girl😂😂
It took us 3 days and the issue was becoming serious.
I started praying serious prayers o.
I was like "God please touch my man's heart so he won't be angry at me again and let's reconcile"
I was praying this prayer everyday but the matter was even becoming worse😂
We didn't talk for days. I kept praying. When I was supposed to humble myself and just apologize. I was praying😁😁
I'm laughing because each time I remember this scenario,I always tell myself that we have the power in our hands to make some things work.
That's how on valentine's day,I just wrote him a long text apologising and I reassured him of my love and loyalty.
Immediately he read the message, he reached out and was like "Babe I'm so sorry too, I took everything too far, I miss you "😂
Haaaaa!!! Almost 4 days of fight I prayed and only an apology solved it.
The bottom line is this, there are so many broken homes that wouldn't have been broken if only we humble ourselves and talk things over. Ego and pride has really d£stroyed so many homes and it's so sad.
There is a place for prayer. Maybe for a sickness, prayer for divine intervention or maybe a change of character, prayers for a good job or a contract and if there will be prayers for such issues, it should be a joint and agreement prayer with both couples heart involved🤲
So the answer is NO, prayers can't fix every marriage problem.
Some require humility,our work,our logic and our sincerity to handle it.