it sucks how i honestly thought i found my person and it boosted my confidence to where i felt like i was worth having around and that i actually could be loved and now im back to the start. feeling worthless and like im nothing
The past is the past. You can't change it. But you can cherish it, celebrate it, laugh about it, learn from it, and take the happy memories with you. What really matters is today. The new page that's waiting to be written. Knowing you have your whole life ahead of you and the best is yet to come.
People will admire your emotional intelligence until it's time for them to swim in it. They will appreciate your empathy, understanding, or validation until your emotional intelligence demands accountability, difficult conversations, or sitting with emotions they want to suppress.
The moment your emotional intelligence disrupts someone's avoidance, denial, or self-centeredness, they may push back. Not everyone is ready to foster honesty, accountability, and depth in relationships.
I can't wait to actually meet someone who's actually interested in me. The constant crave of wanting to talk, asking about my day, my feelings, sharing laughter & being heard is so rare nowadays. Nobody communicates anymore. Real is Rare.
A good man can destroy himself trying to love the wrong woman. Not because love made him weak, but because he kept pouring loyalty into a place that only knew how to drain him. He’ll excuse disrespect, call pain “patience,” confuse suffering with commitment, and keep bleeding just to prove his heart was real. But a man has to learn this: the wrong woman won’t become right because you loved her harder. Sometimes saving yourself is the most masculine thing you can do.
For man power
Get ginger
Bitter kola
Black pepper
Clove
Egbo Akogun ( you can get it from any herbal store)
Pound everything together and put in a bottle . Soak it with gin and be drink one shot every morning .