My wife texted me at 2 a.m. saying she wanted to have sex.
Anytime she wants sex, instead of telling me directly, she'll send me a text.
I've asked her many times why she prefers texting me instead of saying it out loud, and she always says she's shy.
"You're shy? After eight years of marriage?"
She stared at me and said nothing.
I told her we needed to see a therapist because I couldn't be in a marriage with a woman who couldn't tell me she wanted sex directly.
That night, she left her phone behind and went to the toilet. I noticed WhatsApp messages coming in from a group.
I was shocked, my wife owns a WhatsApp group with over 500 women, where she coaches them on how to make the first move with their husbands.
She was even advising them not to be shy because they were legally married.
I checked the date she created the group. It was five years ago.
6 Years Later! We are still dealing with Insecurity, hunger, poverty, lack of proper health care and the highest level of corruption and impunity. The saddest part is that we are even more divided as a people at a time when we should be most united.
I hope one day we truly realize the power that we have as citizens and stop allowing a few selfish individuals destroy the success and prosperity of the majority of us.
Till then, โ๐พ and ๐ค