Happy New Year. I will be starting a new page soon. Every photo, every memory I have finally let go of tonight. No more reminders, no more wishful thinking, no more what-ifs, there are none in the "Dark Triad". It's exactly that...Darkness. Not Light!
Good evening everyone. It was 4 years ago tonight that my world was rocked to it's core and then shortly after discovered Narcissistic Abuse. I thank everyone who helped in my healing and I hope I helped in yours. I will be starting a new page soon . I will post my new X here❤️
@karenmitchell__ Wow! This is such a profound question. My downfall was how deep rooted I was to love and help everyone at the expense of almost losing my life. My recommendation is, if you have to be around them, save face, pray for them and yourself and be glad your not them.
As you look back on the hard times, use them as strength and courage for the future. Because we need to realize we cannot fix the past, but we can learn from it and not repeat the same mistakes ❤️
I've have been on a healing journey like no other. I had to calm my thoughts before I could post again. I've learned so much about myself and why I let others abuse me. More to come....❤️
Something fun for a change. My baby Junior at my sales conference last week. I told him he was to close to the screen. Lol.I already started his resume. I just need to teach him to drive now 🤣
Check out "The Narcissist's Playbook: How to Identify, Disarm, and Protect Yourself from Narcissists, Sociopaths, Psychopaths, and Other Types of Manipulative and Abusive People"
If remembering or reliving the trauma was the key to resolving it, anybody who has flashbacks would be "cured" by now-- but it's not. Resolving trauma is in changing our relationship to what happened, not reliving it.
It's about deeply held meanings, not exposure.