@olaoluwadanie11@themaninileife This is great o.
Quick question cause I'm genuinely curious (not to malign in any way) - Why do most people replying to your post have the same orange background and white suit dp as you?
@Saintcharles_e@BilkeesMoh Amazing how you saw God through the actions of man. His love is by far greater and turning to Him gives us eternal benefits.
Thank you for this beautiful and deep perspective. May His love continue to grow in you.
@Mochievous A woman in her Prime
The godd are not to be blamed
The palmwine tapster
Chike and the river
Women of Owu
Joys of motherhood
The Old man and the sea
Arms and the Man
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I met a first daughter who told me she loves men who don’t just accept anything, men who don’t get bossed around, men who lead and she follows. Whats funny is, this babe loves to boss people around and when you don’t do what she says, her mood changes.
Made me understand something about first daughters, if you don’t lead, she will lead, and her leading makes you less attractive to her
This is what I've been trying to say but said in such clearer terms!!!! Making babies say and do adult stuff is uncanny, weird, and unnatural. It should stop
This might be very controversial as I see a lot of people enjoy it, but you know those Ai generated videos of babies dancing? Those ones on TikTok where the original dancer is an adult and the video is an Ai baby regenerated to replicate the dance? It puts me off.
I can’t quite place my finger on it but something about those videos don’t sit well with me. Almost eerie. The facial expressions, so adult yet it’s a “baby”? Emotionally mature micro-expressions mapped onto a face that’s supposed to be pre-verbal? And it’s just…
Babies are not meant to move like that. When an adult’s motor control is superimposed on a baby, there’s a visual dissonance. I don’t find it cute.
It gives me uncanny vibes.
This is me completely bitching, so don’t take me serious. It’s just one of those things I don’t have to complain about but I am because I don’t have real life problems.
Edit: If I’m to go deep now, I’m a big sucker for micro-expressions. As an actor (and just generally as a person), I don’t just use them - I spot them. Now, when adults dance, there are specific micro-expressions that come with the movement (the eyes can say “come hither” without any words said). Eye tension, mouth tension, brow shifts… a twerk here, a squint there, a smirk there. These things convey intensity without words. Some dancers use them intentionally, others probably just pick it just because…
But when a baby is superimposed onto those expressions, signaling adult agency… I don’t know what I’m supposed to feel. Why is a ‘baby’ biting its lower lip with a furrowed brow?? That’s a suggestive expression found only in adults trying to naughty.
I believe we're seeing the repercussions of decades of societal, cultural and religious structures focusing on preparing women for marriage and implicitly assuming that men do not need to prepare for marriage that much.
Women are taught how to be wives. At home. In church. Everywhere. It's everywhere from the chores you're asked to do to how you walk, speak, dream, show up. Any misbehaviour is tackled with, "Is this how you want to behave in your husband's house?" These aren't just questions, they're preparations for marriage.
But have there always been concrete trainings for men in this regard, apart from "making money" and "being a man" and "being the head of the family"? Not as much. Do parents, society or churches see a single man misbehaving and say, "Is this how you would behave when you get married?" or "You will not be able to get a good wife this way"? I am uncertain.
What we see, rather, is people often subconsciously expecting that even men with bad behaviours will find their own women. It's why you would see men with serious moral deficiencies, lazy and irresponsible, and the solution would be to "Get a wife".
When I first met my husband, I was surprised at how much relationship/marriage content he had invested in. It was evident that he didn't just want to get married, he also wanted to be a great husband. It was refreshing to see and I think this should be mainstream.
When one party is groomed to aspire to marriage without preparing for it, chaos is bound to happen. Nobody learns about marriage automatically. They have to invest in knowledge, both men and women.
1. ChatGPT
2. Copilot
3. Gemini
4. Claude
Out of all of these people, it's just Claude that won't lie to you to make you feel better.
Claude does not send anyone.
Claude is no respecter of persons.
A classic minimization tactic wrapped up in opulent verbosity. It reframes predation as "derring-do" or autism-adjacent edginess to preserve the "luminary." It is clear protectionism, solidarity over accountability, but no "intellectual" TL masturbation excuses Ezra's darkness.