Spend more time with people who:
1. Leave you feeling energized
2. Have your best interests at heart
3. Gently help you see your blind spots
4. Love you for being your authentic self
5. Motivate you to be your best self
6. Respect your boundaries
What else would you add?
@SityGirl50 @cats4fenty @blunt_overture@ladidaix@YungMiami305 My reply came from your comments, including the one you made about being private like Michael Jackson. So if you didn’t come on here saying mess like a woman should be like Michael Jackson during her pregnancy we wouldn’t be having this conversation…
@SityGirl50 @cats4fenty @blunt_overture@ladidaix@YungMiami305 Respectfully, what you’re saying is BONKERS. A woman should NOT have to become a hermit in order for people to NOT assert what they think is going on inside her body.
The older you get, the more you realize you don't wanna be around drama, stress or conflict anymore. You start choosing calm over chaos, and distance over disrespect. You prioritize your peace, mental health and happiness — over everything.
Focus on you. You’ve done enough for the ungrateful. When it's about your life, it's time to be selfish. Make decisions today that will make your future self proud: A calm mind, a fit body, and a house full of love. You deserve it all. Don't feel guilty and accept the blessings.
Part of self-care is setting boundaries, speaking up for yourself, standing tall in what you say, & leaving people right where they had you F'kd up at. Ain't no more over-explaining shit because people know what they be doing & heard you the first time.
Blessed Self-Care Sunday
Your current situation is not permanent. It will pass. You will come out on top. Watch what happens for you. It will all seem supernatural, magical, and unexplainable how it all ends up working out. You’ll be in awe and filled with so much gratitude about how blessed you are.
One thing I hate, is for a person/people to over look AAAALLLLLLLL the good things you do, AAAALLLL the times you showed up, ALLLLLL the things you take care of, AAAALLLL the times things wouldn't have gotten handled if it wasn't for you, but instead will try to find +